Friday, January 27, 2017

Letter to Henry from his mother December 29, 1907

Sabbath evening Dec. 29 [1907]

Dear dear Son –

How glad I was to have your letter it did seem a long, long time but was not so bad for us as you.  It was too bad but papa did not think we could reach you.  Well I am sure though by this time you have had a number of letters and I hope something more.  I did so want to send you some smoked sausage but your father was afraid till you got it cooked, by favor of the cook and give a bit here and a bit there and maybe some fellow steal a march on you, that you wouldn’t get any.  But I have tried to send you some things of not much value in themselves but of untold value when sent with hearts full of love.

Henry I cannot tell you how I felt for you when I read your letter but amidst my tears I was proud of your honesty and your dear confidence.  And it is right in a way many things we all have to learn by experience and it is often a dear teacher but a good one, only make the most of it and keep up your courage and take I have faith enough to believe it will all come right.

And above all else be above things of evil report, you can be courteous to your comrades in work but need not be of them.  I am glad you have found someone who is trying to do right and thinks & tries to live as you.  You must tell him your mother’s dearest friend is a Lutheran and I am glad you are friends, remember me to him and tell him I shall pray for him too.  Oh how sadly these dear boys all need their mothers’ prayers and help in many ways.  I know you are sorry and I am sure you will prove it by doing your best now, if you are faithful and a manly boy and your conduct true it cannot but bring its reward and blessing.  You would never dishonor yourself or us by leaving in disgrace, I think I could never hold up my head.  And for your mother’s sake never think of it.

About going on the other side there will be much that would be grand for you and that talk of being stationed is only talk, we will hope for better things.  The captain on the Washington told Mrs. Magee they expected to be gone two years.  Your father & I are planning all the nice things we will want you to bring home so be of good cheer, I myself dare not think of the time, if I was well I could bear it better but I have awful battles to fight and must be brave for the rest of you.  So you see dear you are not alone in this and we are praying for strength for you all the time.

I am anxious too about your money.  I believe if I were you I’d deposit most of it or see what you could do, papa has found it a good plan not to have much about him.  We have lost money trying to help people and I would certainly hate to see you lose any of your hard earned money.  My Henry don’t you think it belittles a man to be of that stamp always in debt only to be a spendthrift.

I shall enquire who it is on the Hill, we have not heard of anyone.

Fred and Anna are going to Phila in the morning on papa’s train for the day.  They will go to see Independence Hall & then out to Aunt Lizzie’s for dinner, and come in and look around the stores & back at 5.30.  It is the pass papa got to go to Norfolk, you know he had to have a separate one for them to Phila.

It is just a bit after nine and papa & Anna have gone to bed, Fred went an errand to Will – and I want to finish your letter so he can take it to the mail.  I enclose Anna’s which she wrote all by herself. 

I almost forgot to tell you, my Chinese lilies you got me last fall a year are in bed, you know they only grew to leaves last spring, but this time I cut them as I had seen somewhere.
That was indeed strange about the grasshoppers & I believe you are right about it.  I am so glad you stay well.  That copy of the certificate is quite an idea, or the style rather.  I know you enjoyed the lectures & you will like The Virginian.  I was glad you had a card from Howard.  Do write us all the little things that concern your daily life or anything that troubles and we will do our best to help.  Those photographs are beautiful.

God bless and keep you pure.

With love and a Good New Year, lovingly –

Mother

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